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They says a way to men's heart is through his stomach and we are listing  few sex food targeting below bellybutton

 

Garlic 
Because it contains allicin, garlic increases blood flow to the sexual organs, which can certainly help get things going in the bedroom. 

 

 Caffeine 
Whether in coffee, tea, sodas or chocolate, caffeine, up to a certain point, can get your motor going. 

 

Chocolate 
Besides containing caffeine, chocolate contains two compounds believed to have sex-enhancing effects: anandamide and phenylethylamine (PEA). (PEA is a natural form of amphetamine, an antidepressant). This sweet also contains theobromine, which increases endorphin production, making for a good high. 

 

Ambrien 
Found in the digestive tract of some sperm whales, this waxy substance is used in Arab countries, but is illegal in the U.S. Ambrien is said to increase a male's libido by increasing the concentration of several hormones, including testosterone. 

 

Alcohol 
Liquor is known to help lovers feel relaxed and in the mood, in large part because people have such strong beliefs that liquor makes for Alcohol 
Liquor is known to help lovers feel relaxed and in the mood, in large part because people have such strong beliefs that liquor makes for libido. 

Spices 
Some spices, like cayenne pepper, can get you hot quite literally by increasing your heart rate and body temperature. Some also mirror signs of sexual arousal, like a body flush, perspiration and plumper lips. Certain spices can be consumed in capsule, tincture or concentrated drop form a half an hour before sex to boost circulation. 

 

Herbs 
Helping lovers relax and ease anxieties, some herbs are seen as having physical effects that can make you feel randier and increase blood flow to the genitals. Certain ones, like lemon balm, a type of mint plant that''s available in tea form, can relax the nervous system, soothing you while elevating your mood. 

 

Alcohol 
Liquor is known to help lovers feel relaxed and in the mood, in large part because people have such strong beliefs that liquor makes for libido. 

 

Herbs 
Helping lovers relax and ease anxieties, some herbs are seen as having physical effects that can make you feel randier and increase blood flow to the genitals. Certain ones, like lemon balm, a type of mint plant that''s available in tea form, can relax the nervous system, soothing you while elevating your mood. 

 

A married man will often tell you lies. You need to remember a married man who has an affair doesn't care about his marriage. You should never marry a married man that had an affair with you. It will end up as a bad situation in the end. Here are five tips on getting over a married man.

 

Think about the things you don't like about him

1. Does he often lie to you?
2. Does he seem to always give you excuses?

It is because he is still married. You have to remember that he is only cares about himself and nobody else. A married man does not think of you as the greatest woman in the world. You are just a sex machine for him

Remember he doesn't care about you

He doesn't care about you. He isn't in a serious romantic relationship with you. You are only something that he will just use. You are only there to fill his sexual needs. You are not special to him. You are not his idea of the wonderful woman that he wants to marry after he files for divorce. A married man who cheats doesn't love his wife enough. He doesn't love you either.

Remember he will treat you like crap eventually

He will treat you like crap just like he did towards his wife. He will make you feel miserable in the relationship. He will just get smarter about cheating on you behind your back. He will come up with better excuses. He will tell you all the things that you want to hear just so that you don't leave him since he enjoys being able to have sex with several women at once.

Remember he would always cheat on you

Don't believe a married man lies about how you two can be together after he files for divorce.
He will end up cheating on you just like he did to his previous wife. He will do the exact same things to you that he did to his wife. He will be out in the middle of night or day having sex with another woman while you are stuck home wondering where he is at.

Always remind yourself that you deserve to be a man who doesn't cheat

A virgin is a person--male or female--who has never had sexual intercourse (the insertion of the penis into the vagina). However, sexual intercourse is only one part of sexual intimacy--though it is a huge, loaded part.

Virgin or not, the real issue is to be comfortable with your decision every time you participate in sexual intimacy, whether you are deciding to make out, give or receive oral sex, have intercourse, or anything else.

Each experience is a new choice, and your actions always deserve thought and attention.

Everybody starts experimenting sexually at different ages and at different rates. Nobody should do anything they aren't comfortable with or feel ready to do. Don't have sex unless you know for sure that you want to. And when you do it, do it safely!

There is a thin membrane of tissue across the vaginal opening called the hymen. Historically, it was believed that the hymen was a sign of sexual purity that was "broken" the first time a female had intercourse.

Nowadays, it's recognized that hymens come in all shapes and sizes, and that they can break and bleed due to playing sports, a pelvic exam, or by using tampons. The condition of a hymen does not "prove" virginity.

Virginity has many social and cultural implications, but in the end, it means something different and personal to each person in a given situation. It's a good idea to think about what "losing your virginity" means to you, and to try to understand what you want. If you are clear about this with yourself, it will be much easier to be clear with anyone else.

An erection is when blood rushes into and fills causing it to enlarge and stiffen enough to have sex.

Erections are a reflex--meaning not within a person's control--so a cause can't always be identified. Anything from a brush of fabric to the need to urinate can cause an erection, but most often, erections occur as a response to sexual

Some slang terms for an erection are: boner, hard-on, woodie and stiffie. Erections begin to occur most often during puberty, but a boy can get an erection at any age--even while still in the uterus!

Erections come in all types of shapes and sizes, but the average adult erect penis is about six inches. However, all sizes and shapes vary from person to person.

Sometimes erections happen quickly, sometimes not, but the process is generally the same: The brain sends chemical messages to nerves in the penis, which signals the blood vessels to relax and fill with blood, causing the penis to stiffen.

During an erection, the penis can also get darker in color and the head can grow bigger. The testicles (balls) draw in close to the body, instead of hanging loosely.

Erections disappear in one of two ways: either by themselves as the muscles simply relax, or after ejaculation. It is usually difficult for a man to orgasm or even have another erection immediately after ejaculation. This state, called the refractory period, can last anywhere from a few minutes to days, and depends on things like age and how often the man has sex

Hormones race during puberty, which can lead to spontaneous erections. It is normal for a boy to get an erection without having sexual thoughts. These unwanted erections can be embarrassing, and boys usually try to hide their erection by sitting down, untucking their shirt or holding a textbook in front of their crotch area. Ignoring a spontaneous erection by thinking nonsexual thoughts, singing a song or employing some other tactic for distraction can also make it

Erections happen a lot during sleep, especially for teenage boys. Deep relaxation can lead to an erection, plus hormones that can cause erections are released during the Rapid Eye Movement dreaming phase (REM). On average, a healthy male has about two to three erections lasting 25-35 minutes a night.

During an erection, the penis often produces a small amount of clear fluid, called pre-ejaculate (or "pre-cum"). The purpose of pre-cum is to clean the urethra--the tube that carries urine and semen--and to help sperm stay alive as they travel through the vagina. Because pre-cum travels through the urethra, it can pickup leftover sperm from a previous ejaculation, and therefore can cause pregnancy if it gets inside a woman's vagina (even just at the opening). Pre-cum can also carry sexually transmitted diseases

Sometimes, erections during sleep lead to nocturnal emission or "wet dreams." During a wet dream, boys ejaculate excess sperm. Wet dreams can happen as often as one to three times per week, but some men never experience a wet dream in their lives.

Typically, men who ejaculate on a regular basis through sex or masturbation have fewer wet dreams than men who do not. Women experience wet dreams as well, though it is not as messy as wet dreams in men.

Boys and men are often frustrated by not being able to get or keep erections when they want to. All kinds of factors can lead to erection difficulty, including stress, nerves, drugs and alcohol. Some men suffer from erectile dysfunction, also known as ED. Erectile dysfunction can happen at any age, but it is most common in older men. Medication, therapy and surgery can treat this condition.

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DEFINITION: Anal sex is when a finger, a mouth, a penis or a sex toy is used to stimulate the delicate nerve endings in the anus.

SLANG: Common slang terms for anal sex include back-door sex, fudge-packing, anal play, rear entry and doggy-style (but doggy-style can also mean penis-in-vagina intercourse from behind). Rimming is a slang term

WHO DOES IT: Both women and men can enjoy giving or receiving anal sex, and both women and men can have orgasms from anal sex. Likewise, people of any sexual orientation may enjoy anal sex. Enjoying anal sex doesn't mean a person is gay or straight.

PROSTATE GLAND: Boys have something called the prostate gland, which can be stimulated through anal sex. Girls do not have prostate glands, but their rectal area (around the anus) is still sensitive.

SODOMY: You may have heard anal sex referred to as "sodomy" or you may have heard the word "sodomize" to describe the act of anal intercourse. Actually, "sodomy" is primarily a legal and religious term that can mean anal sex, oral sex, masturbation and even rape (which is not sex at all, but is an act of violence against a person). Sometimes "sodomy" is used to mean any kind of gay sex. When people use the word "sodomy" they generally are trying to regulate a sexual practice.

VIRGINITY: Anal sex, like any kind of sex, is something you should only do if you are sure you want to. Some people want to remain virgins and think of anal sex as different than penis-in-vagina sex. Depending on what virginity means to you, you could have anal sex and still be a virgin. The thing to remember about anal sex (or any other kind of sex) is that it's your choice and you don't have to do anything you don't want to do or even anything you're not sure about.

DOES IT HURT: Like other kinds of penetrative sex, anal sex can be painful if your body is not ready for it. As always, it is crucial to go slowly, listen to your body and communicate with your partner. Using lots of water-based lubrication (more on that later) can help reduce any discomfort.

RISKS: You can't get pregnant from unprotected anal sex unless semen gets into the vagina, but it's still a Really Bad Idea. Here's why:

Unprotected anal sex (with a penis) is a high risk for sexually transmitted diseases like HIV, herpes, warts (HPV), hepatitis B, gonorrhea and syphilis. Why is unprotected anal sex such a high risk? Because the tissue inside your anus is very delicate and tender, and tiny tears or scrapes can happen without you even noticing. Then if your partner cums inside you or has genital warts or herpes, it is very easily transmitted.

SAFER SEX: The only safe way to put a penis into an anus is if there is a condom on the penis. Water-based lubrication is available at many regular drugstores and will not diminish the condom's effectiveness. Oil-based lubricants like lotion or Crisco can render a condom useless.

PRECAUTIONS: You shouldn't put anything that's been in your butt inside your vagina. Transferring rectal bacteria into the vagina can equal yeast infections or urinary tract infections. Not fun! Use a new condom or latex glove when you switch from the front to the back (or vice versa).

Wet dreams are generally defined as erotic dreams that culminate with an orgasm. They are very commonly associated with nocturnal emissions--an involuntary ejaculation that occurs while one is asleep (hence the "wet" in the phrase "wet dreams").

Who experiences them? Wet dreams typically occur in males during their prepubescent and teenage years. Though they usually taper off as guys mature, some men may experience wet dreams well into adulthood. Girls experience wet dreams also; however they aren't as common (or aren't as easily recognized by women, as by men).When a female experiences a wet dream, the vagina becomes lubricated as she becomes sexually aroused in her dream. However, less liquid is produced by females, leaving little evidence of a wet dream when she wakes up.

Why do they occur? Doctors aren't one-hundred percent sure why wet dreams happen; however, they do have some theories. Some believe that nocturnal emissions occur because of an actual sexual dream and the process of becoming aroused by the dream. For instance, while a guy is asleep his body responds as if he was actually experiencing what he was dreaming of.

Another theory is that wet dreams are a way the body gets rid of "built-up" semen, and that "built-up" semen are due to a lack of masturbation. Yet, many doctors dispute this theory.

Testosterone-based drugs may be another factor in the occurrence of wet dreams. Studies have indicated that men who take testosterone-based drugs experience more wet dreams than the average male.

One last thing to note is that while asleep, "the body goes through a resting test of your sexual body parts," . This means that males get erections about four to six times during an eight-hour period and females lubricate approximately the same amount of times.

When does it happen? While asleep, our bodies enter a period known as REM, or rapid eye movement. This period can last from a few minutes to a half an hour and is the point in which sleepers have the most vivid dreams. Wet dreams, or nocturnal emissions, usually occur during the REM period of sleep.

How often does it happen? There's no average number--some can have wet dreams once every two months, or more rarely, once every two days. There are some people who have never had a nocturnal emission at all. One interesting thing to note is that a person who sleeps in is more likely to have a wet dream than someone who wakes up early because the extra hours lead to more REM sleep. So, based on this, wet dreams are more likely to happen on the weekend than during the typical school week.

Are wet dreams bad? Wet dreams are a normal part of life and many people experience them. According to some studies, 90% of males and 37% of females have wet dreams from time to time. And don't worry...no physical harm is caused by wet dreams.

However, history hasn't always been so kind--in the 18th and 19th centuries, circumcision (the surgical removal of the entire or part of the foreskin) and castration (the removal of the testicles of a male or the ovaries of the female) were often advised to treat this "disease."

Can you prevent wet dreams? While there is no known treatment for stopping the occurrence of wet dreams, there are some things that reduce the chance of experiencing one. Some experts believe that masturbation or sex during waking hours will lower the frequency of wet dreams--however there is no guarantee.

Here are some tips and behaviors that portray interest in sex vs. relationship during the first couple of dates or early on in the relationship:

1. When a guy is interested in the details and stories of your sexual history on the first and second dates - he is interested in sex...

2. Your date is commenting obsessively on body parts, yours and other women - he is not into relationship - he is into sex.

3. If /when he tells you details of his own sexual history, too soon into the 'relationship', even under the guise of confiding, he is interested in sex.

4. Consider his ability to maintain eye contact with you. If he is very shy and cannot maintain eye contact, he'll look down at his shoes or at the floor. However, if/when he speaks with you and keeps focusing on your breasts and following your breasts with his eyes, even as you move around - it is a red flag: he is not shy and he is not interested in really getting to know you…

5. If there is spontaneous touching, which you feel is inappropriate – it probably is.

6. Not all relationships start like the examples above. Most dating relationships begin with interests to see and get to know each other. For the women who got hurt in relationships that turned to be sexual encounters only, being strategic and mindful is a way to continue to date… carefully.

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1. Does he think my thighs are fat? My dear, he’s not even looking at your thighs. He’s far more interested in what’s between them..

2. Does he think my breasts are too small? Darling, he’s so glad to be allowed to touch them; he doesn’t have time to think thoughts like this! Breasts are magic to most men, all shapes and sizes are sexy to him.

3. Does he like my lingerie? Yap, Most women don’t bother dressing up for their man, so if you’re actually sporting something made for sex, he’s feeling very lucky.

4. Does he think I’m a good kisser? He probably doesn’t know the difference between a good kiss and a bad kiss? Besides, if he keeps kissing you, he can’t be unhappy with the results!

5. Does he think I’m sexy enough? Sweetie, if he didn’t find you sexy, he wouldn’t be able to deliver the goods. If he’s in bed with you, he thinks you’re plenty sexy!

6. Does he like the sound of my voice? I’ll make this simple – if you’re moaning or screaming with pleasure because of something he’s doing to you, YES, he will like the sound. A lot. Just make sure it's genuine - pornstar syndrome is not sexy.

7. Does he think I’m good in bed? If you’re a star in bed, yes, he will be thinking this. If you’re average, or even underaverage, the idea will probably not even occur to him. He’ll be far too wrapped up in that “Yes, I’m getting it tonight!”

Also read : Is he bad in bed?

A lot of men think women are just naturally frigid, but The truth is, the average woman is probably less frigid than the average man… we just have better self-control when it comes to holding out for something good. And, unfortunately, it can be really, really difficult to find something good.

I’ve put together a list of 5 tips for deciding whether or not it’s worth going the whole nine yards to find out. If he fits into one of these categories, it probably isn’t.

He’s a terrible kisser.

This is perhaps obvious, but if a man doesn’t know how to French kiss, it’s unlikely he’s going to know how to handle more important tasks. Slobbering, teeth scraping, plunging his tongue down your throat; these are all signs he’s going to be really crap in bed.

He’s a terrible slow dancer.

It’s often said in jest, but if a guy can’t even slow dance to a familiar rhythm, that means he hasn’t got any. I don’t really need to explain why that’s bad, right?

He drinks a lot or takes drugs.

This one is twofold; the most obvious reason would be the side-effects alcohol and drugs can have on a man’s anatomy. Yeah, he can last 5 hours when he’s drunk. It ain’t cos either of you want him to, though.

He scarf his food, drink, etc.

This might sound strange, but a man who inhales food or drink is basically only concerned with satisfying the call of hunger or thirst. He wants instant satisfaction and doesn’t bother savoring the meal. You can apply this to his other basic needs, as well. This guy is crap in bed, and you’ll be able to verify that for yourself in about 2 minutes.

He’s a bad listener.

If he never remembers anything you tell him, if he always seems distracted when you’re having a conversation, if he sucks at maintaining eye contact while you’re talking – he doesn’t value what you’re saying. Which means he’s not overly concerned with your needs? The rest should be simple math.

1. Underneath your clothes
Men may not notice your new dress, but he will probably remind you years ahead about your stockings, tiny panties and sexy bra, the more so if you put on the most ill-fitted ones. Keep in mind that you may wear the simplest outfit outside the bedroom setting, but you should always wear lingerie you won't be embarrassed to show after you undress.

2. Use your sex muscles
When a man penetrates a woman the last thing he expects to see is her absolute calmness and immovability. Many women would get out of going to the sexologist if only they take advantage of the most powerful tool they have at their disposal-their sex or PC muscle. Nothing can heighten intimate experience more than a woman good at controlling her vagina. Training your PC muscle will help you not only keep your vaginal muscles in tone, but make an amazing revelation of your own sexual skills.

3. Add a bit of strip tease
If you haven't learned the common truth yet, then we need to say it again: men like to watch! They like to devour your breasts, your hips, your butt, your vagina and all your body with his eyes. You can be a nice Nelly, a business woman, a bluestocking outside your bedroom, but you should forget about all your "good girl" manners and free yourself from useless shyness and feed his sexual imagination. Keep in mind that the way you undress is one of the strongest turn-on for a man, otherwise they wouldn't spend their money on strippie and adult movies.

4. Move your body
Nothing can leave your man at a loss as fast as your lifeless body and your indifferent look, almost saying "when will he cum at last". Of course, you shouldn't perform Brazilian dance in order to brighten up the situation. You just need to feel the inner urge to let him penetrate you most intimate part and that close connection between two of you. When you move your body synchronized with his own, you help him find the right angle and the right rhythm.

5. Learn his body
Don't try to reduce sex to moth-eaten practices. If you are used to be passive side in your love play, swap over and explore his body in full. While men seem to be more concentrated on their genitals, you give him a possibility to discover new hot areas he may not be aware of.

6. Take the initiative
99 % of men dream about a woman taking the initiative, the rest 1% is probably too shy to admit it. What could be more appealing to a man, than a woman who is smart enough to do the "work" themselves and let her partner derive the utmost satisfaction? It can be quite hard for him to always prove his masculinity and be "Mr. Hero" who drives you to the high of sexual ecstasy. That surely doesn't mean you should be somewhat pushy or aggressive, you just need to know that sometimes men need to feel they are being "guided". Related Article: Amazing sex tips for girls

Lather up

Have a shower or bath together. Use plenty of lather. There is no sensation quite like having a lovers soapy, smooth hands gliding across your skin.

Make the first move

No hot-blooded bloke's going to turn his nose up at a foxy girl trying to get him into bed, so don't worry about making the first move from time to time - taking the lead with a quick cuddle and a passionate snog will be enough to let him know what you've got in mind - go girl!

Pucker up Kiss the back and spine of your lover. Placing a row of kisses along your lovers spine is an especially sensuous thing to do.

Kissing your lover's thighs can be especially erotic. Place your head on your lover's lap. You can even pretend to fall asleep. A few kisses on his or her thigh should be a reminder that you are awake.

While you are kissing your lover you should stroke and caress all of the areas of his or her body.

Text him

During the day, text him and tell him what you are planning to do to him when you get home.

He won't be able to get home fast enough!

Boost your partner's confidence

Telling your partner how good / stunning / exciting / sexy they are will do wonders for your sex life, as self-confidence and sexual prowess are linked, so the better your partner feels about themselves, the more fun you'll both have.


Snap happy

Try taking sexy snaps of each other - a Polaroid film is the safest option and you'll get instant results.

Failing that a digital camera - but make sure you trust your partner completely if you don't want to see pics of yourself splashed over the internet!


The pulse-breathing technique

To get all fired up for sex, try the pulse-breathing technique prior to sex.

Sit opposite each other, close your eyes and inhale slowly, letting the air fill your lungs, then exhale in a series of three short, sharp breaths. Repeat twice and then go for it. It should help to highten the pleasure for both of you, because your breathing will be in sync.

Sexy shopper

Shop for sex toys together - either on-line or in-store.

This is a great opportunity for bonding, as well as revealing what each of you like.

Sex strike

Tease each other by doing everything but penetration to make sex exciting again (and yes you need to be in your best pulling pants).

Go Lara

Plan a sexual adventure - a surprise night where each must come prepared with a sexual adventure for the other (be sure to bring all the necessary props and tools).

Go crazy, be creative, have a little fun.

The eyes have it

Look at your partner directly in the eyes when you're having sex or giving him a blow job.

It'll blow him away.

Jiggle

Don't waste time worrying about what he thinks of your body.

He's not perfect either, and while you're worried about your wobbly bum and thunder thighs, he's probably worried about his beer belly or skinny arms. If you really can't face the thought of going naked, then sexily suggest you keep some of your clothes on. Or turn out the light and tell him to feel his way around.

Ice ice baby

Using something extremely cold on warm flesh will have him rigid with anticipation. Using an ice cube, write a message on his back telling him what you are going to do to him.

Sweet delight

Paint each other's bodies with edible paints. Or improvise with something from the refrigerator like chocolate syrup or whipped cream.

Create the mood

There are a number of ways to create a romantic, sensual mood.

Try: Incense, Perfuming Your Skin, Flowers, Wine or Champagne, Silk or Satin, Soft Light or Oils and Lotions.

Kiss it better

Make a pact to kiss for at least five minutes before you do anything else.

Start by tracing the outline of his lips with your fingers and then slipping your fingers into his mouth so he can suck on them. Lick his lips with the tip of your tongue, then blow on them. Slowly suck on his lower lip. Don't forget to moan while you're kissing, the vibrations will rocket through his body.

Vibrator heaven

Incorporate a small vibrator into your lovemaking. For example, try using it on her while performing oral sex.

Share your fantasies

Sharing fantasies can provide a fantastic sex game.

However, don't tell him you fantasize about his dad, brother, best friend etc unless you want him running for the hills!

Whisper

Many men respond to some sexy words, ideas and commands spoken by their loved ones.

Anything from sharing fantasies to getting downright frisky is included here, so expand your vocabulary, get your imagination going and wait for the results!

Delay it

Resist the temptation to reach orgasm.

Delay it and enjoy the sensuality and eroticism of the act. When this happens it will be that much more intense later.

Masturbate

Masturbate in front of your partner and get them to return the favour.

You'll both learn about each other and enjoy the sexy show...

A guided tour

Give your fella a guided tour of your body.

Experiment with ice and hot breath. Ask him to play with your mons pubis(The fleshy area that covers your pubic bone). Gently massaging and tugging on the pubic hair will send you into a tailspin of pleasure.

Naked chef

Cook naked with your boyfriend. Sweating over a hot stove is the perfect opportunity to get kinky.

Storytime

Blindfold your lover and tell him an erotic story. Let your imagination run wild. Involve props - if you know your lover loves being tied up, make that part of your turn-on tale.

Fantasy Box

Together, take the time to create a "fantasy box." On separate pieces of paper, jot down fantasies, fold them up, and put them in the box.

When the mood strikes you - pull one out at random.

Blindfold him

This gives you the freedom to do anything you want without worrying how ridiculous you look.

Better still, as well as the blindfold, why not gently tie your bloke's hands to the bedposts so he can't reach out and stop your teasing - the anticipation will drive him wild!

Alfresco nookie

Exciting but risky - so pick your place carefully!


Talk about sex

Your boyfriend is a boy.

That means he's up for just about anything when it comes to sex. If you don't say anything he's prone to just get on top and go like a rabbit.

Make some noise

A new study shows that 80% of men would prefer their woman to make much more noise in bed.

It seems guys love to hear that you're appreciating their efforts.

Give good head

Oral sex is something you get better at the more you do it. If you lack confidence try these:

1) Place one hand around his penis so you can control his thrusts.
2) Treat his penis like an ice lolly, running your tongue over the most sensitive areas
3) Take him into your mouth and slowly start to do your thing.

If it feels uncomfortable just let your hands take over the action and go back when you feel ready. Above all, have a good time.

Ditch the Kama Sutra

The last thing you fancy after a day at work is a sex marathon.

Relationship expert, Judi James says: 'Putting sex on to your to do list turns into a chore. So relax, take a shower, and invite him in to get cosy over a few soapsuds.'

Have no shame

The wilder you act in front of him, the more turned on he'll be.

Take one of his hands in both of yours and then use it as a tool to pleasure yourself. Start by licking and sucking each of his fingers provocatively, then run his hand over your neck, down your back, across your breasts and stomach and finally up your thighs towards your clitoris. Make sure you don't let go of his hands at any point.

Get your bits out

Be proud of your assets!

Over 98% of men (so that's all the one's that aren't blind) are turned on my sexy visual stimuli - like the sight of your naked body. So do yourself a favour - turn up the lights, pull back the sheets and shamelessly put yourself and your body on full view. He'll be so stimulated, you can just lie back and enjoy!


Sexy games

Dare him to play some naughty games.

Sexperts claim saucy scenarios can spice up even the most boring of lovers and entice you both into sexual antics you might normally feel too shy to try. How about a naked version of spin the bottle where you make your dares as raunchy as possible? And if he feels too stupid/shy/embarrassed - blindfold him so he can't see what he's doing as you both play.