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Always remember needs a lot of patience and an honest approach from your side.

1.) Introspection: The first and foremost thing to do is to look within you and do a bit of introspection. Yes, try to find out your best traits and qualities that were appreciated by your Ex. Do strengthen those lovable traits that would make you more charming and work upon your weaknesses. Try to find out the reasons as why your ex left you! (I know it is very difficult to think what makes ones heart hurt, but for the last time you have to do it).

(2.) Be the most desired person: After the must needed introspection, get ready to be the most desirable and lovable person. For becoming the most eligible person, you have to do nothing but just be yourself. Yes, no need to be someone else, just enhance your personality and work on your looks. Be a magnet and not the iron.

(3.) No Desperation: Yes! Don't be too desperate to meet your Ex or calling him/her again and again to give out the impression of a loser. Nobody likes a loser, so take a chill pill and treat this time as a testing time of your love. At the same time, try to make him/her realize that you still do exist in this world. Go out with common friends and impress them by your charming and affectionate personality. Trust me, the radiations of your true love would automatically be conveyed to him/her.

(4.) The weapon of jealousy is effective but I don't recommend it: he/she may feel jealous after seeing you with someone else and you could be successful in making him/her miss you. However, if you not only want him/her miss you but want to make him/her yours forever, then too much jealousy can be harmful for your relationship.

(5.) You are the best thing ever happened to your Ex: have a firm belief that 'your love' is the best thing that has ever happened to him/her. When you feel that it is the right time to be together with your Ex, then don't be shy in talking to him/her. Have a dignified conversation without any bitterness of the past, adding a pinch of romantic element in it. If you are going to meet him/her, then don't forget, if you are a male to wear the shirt she gave you or take her favourite flowers for her and if you are a female, then wear a dazzling dress of his favourite colour or wearing the necklace or anything that he gifted to you. But do keep in mind that your eyes should speak about the intensity of your love and Body language should be just awesome.

Most women have blemishes, dark patches or dark circles they want to hide. With the help of a little concealer and foundation - poof, they're gone!!

Here's how

Causes
Dark under-eye circles are a familiar problem for a lot of women. The purplish color along with puffiness is the result of tiny blood vessels that have poor circulation due to stress, lack of sleep or, unfortunately, heredity.

Homemade Dark circles Remedy - Try these remedies for treating dark circles under eyes

Dark Circles can be removed by applying peeled and grated potato overnight at least three times a week.

Grate a cucumber, squeeze to take out its juice and refrigerate. Make a mixture of lemon juice, lanolin cream and cucumber juice and apply around the eye for 10-15 minutes.

The most effective remedy for dark circles is also the most cliche. Thin slices of cucumber applied to your eyes not only helps to lighten the skin, but also soothes and cools the eyes. This can be especially comforting if you've been up late the night before or your eyes are red and tired from allergies or staring at a laptop screen.

Massage with almond oil under and around eyes at bed time daily for 2 weeks and see the improvement. Almond helps to remove dark circles, and is an excellent "skin food".

Place cotton wool swabs dipped in cold milk on closed eyes for removing dark circles for 10-15 minutes daily before sleeping.

Coconut oil massage daily for 5 minutes before sleeping will help will help you a lot in removing your dark circles.

The caffiene in tea bags acts as a remedy for dark circles by diminishing puffiness. Caffiene in tea helps to diminish water in the tissues around the eyes (you'll notice that many early eye circle creams contain caffiene for this very reason). In addition, tea contains antioxidants that are beneficial to the skin.

Warnings

• Be careful about what type of teabag you use. If you have allergies a tea bag like chamomile might swell your eyes.
• Do not apply ice or extremely cold water directly to the skin around the eyes for more than a couple of seconds.
• Exercise caution when using a new cosmetic product or trying a home remedy. If the condition worsens, or if you exhibit other symptoms, discontinue use immediately and contact your primary care physician or dermatologist for severe or persisting symptoms.
• Consult a physician before considering using any expensive or invasive treatments. Not all Eye Circles are formed equally, and understanding and discussing the root causes of your dark circles with a qualified professional will ensure you don't waste your money.

Makeup Tips

Concealers
Concealers are created with a denser composition and perfectly designed for their intended use. They are designed for small area coverage and are not the makeup product for full face application Foundation alone cannot be enough to cover your dark under eye circles as it is transparent. A quality concealer with a dry texture last the longest as the cream base can adhere to your skin. A liquid concealer tends to melt if the temperatures rise. Under Eye Concealers are available in formulas and consistencies that range from stick, cream, airbrush, pencil, and waterproof. Application tools vary with concealers applied by sponge or brush.

Color Choices
Trying to hide the circles under a light shade of concealer will create a white mask. That will not reduce the shadows but emphasize the dark area, instead of concealing them. Your skin tone will be your guide as to which shade of concealer will best suit you. It is safe to go one half to one shade lighter than your under eye circles. A golden toned concealer such as will counteract the blue-purple tones and look the most natural for you. Dark circle you can go with dropping down one full shade lighter but you will have to be much more cautious with blending when you apply .

Application
To hide dark under eye circles, select a cosmetic under-eye concealer that's one shade lighter than the foundation you're using. Understand that a pale yellowish concealer helps hide blue or grayish circles, while a light blue or mauvish concealer masks brownish under-the-eye bags.

Begin with a freshly washed and exfoliated face. Dab concealer under your eyes gently, using a soft circular motion. Apply foundation up to the concealer and blend the two shades together gently, using a circular motion to cover dark under eye circles. Finish with a dusting of untinted face powder for a polished, seamless look.

Avoid

Here are some tips to help save some of you women out there from a stupid decision or at least help you see where they can improve for the next round.

1. Start thinking of dating as a job interview.
You need to start asking for references! Finding out why his previous relationships didn't work out should give you some clues about what to expect. And if his ex-wife/ex-girlfriend says he's a jerk, you must accept that you cannot change him, and move on!

2. Find out if he has a record.
Check the state and national criminal databases for every potential hubby-to-be. Jettison anyone with domestic violence charges or seatbelt violations. And as long as you're at it, let's check the marriage records. If he's married AND dating, forget him!

3. Start looking in all the new places.
If you ever find a good man, you'll want to keep him under lock and key, so he doesn't wander off. Meanwhile, you're going to have to start looking for men that haven't learned to be jerks yet or men that are newly available through no fault of their own

4. Wait for some time before marriage
Give minimum one or two years time to your relationship if he is a jerk he can't hide his inner self that long, put every man you meet on 'probation' for the first two years you know him. If he doesn't reveal himself as a jerk in that timeframe, then you can start to take him seriously.

1.      Our hands and fingertips contain a lot of nerve-endings rendering them very for self-pleasure purposes. Therefore, it makes sense to include the use of our hands and fingers as one of the most effectual self-pleasure tips for women.

2.      Using your hands and fingers involves running your hands all over your body. Feel the smoothness and silkiness of your own skin.

3.      Scratch your nails lightly over several places.

4.      Massage and caress yourself all over and be aware of how the said parts of your body, as well as your hands and fingers, feel as you do so.

5.      Run your fingertips over your neck, your inner thighs, your inner arms, your palms, and finally, your breasts and that triangle between your thighs. Caress your breasts. You may want to do all these while looking at yourself in the mirror.

6.      Massage your breasts in a circular motion with the flat side of your palms. Feel the tingling sensation in your palms as you do so. Much like the striptease acts that you see in erotic movies, pull on your nipples and twirl them between your fingers. Notice how at certain points of this motion, there seem to be a single thread connecting the middle of your palms, the middle of your feet, your nipples and your clitoris. This will produce a-wetness between your thighs.

7.      Touch yourself. Discover where your clitoris is. As you well know, your clitoris is the seat of all sexual pleasure. Rub your fingers and the flat of your palms in your most sensitive places. Massage your clitoris. Wet your fingers with your mouth and put your fingers inside you one by one that is, as many of them as you can take in at once. Then, go nuts!