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10 Secrets All Men Keep



1. Yes, he falls in lust 10 times a day--but it doesn't mean he wants to leave you.

2. He actually does play sports to get away from you.

3. Every year he loves you more.

4. Earning money makes him feel important.

5. Though he often protests, he actually enjoys fixing things around the house.

6. He likes it when you mother him, but he's terrified that you'll become your mother.

7. Give him an inch and he'll give you a lifetime. Translation: Let him be a dumb guy and play poker with his buddies or go on vacation alone, and he'll love you forever for that.

8. He really doesn't understand what you're talking about when you discuss "issues" in your relationship. It makes no sense at all to him--even though he will nod in agreement and apparent understanding.

9. He is terrified when you drive.

10. He'll always wish he was 25 again.

20 Professional networking sites


  1. http://brijj.com/
  2. http://www.linkedin.com/
  3. http://affinitycircles.com/
  4. http://www.refernet.net/
  5. http://www.businesspartnerships.ca/
  6. http://www.contactnetworks.com/
  7. http://www.doostang.com/
  8. http://www.ecademy.com/
  9. http://www.xing.com/econozco/
  10. http://www.zoominfo.com/
  11. http://www.favors.org/FF/
  12. http://www.onlinebusinessnetworking.com/
  13. http://www.ordergenerator.com/index.htm
  14. http://www.powermingle.com
  15. http://realcontacts.com
  16. https://www.visiblepath.com/registration/vpHomePage.action
  17. http://www.viadeo.com/connexion/
  18. http://www.tacit.com/home.asp
  19. http://www.spoke.com/
  20. http://www.senior-management-network.co.uk/


Some good networking tips for working women

Keep a track. It's important to keep track of everyone you contact. Save all the business cards you receive during your networking activities and make cards for prospective contacts. Mark down the date of each interaction with each person—meetings, phone calls, and résumé mailings. Record who refers you to whom and how you followed up. Buy Palm Pilot. An inexpensive notebook, address book, or box of index cards ,Regularly flip through these contact cards or notebook pages to make sure no contact falls through the cracks.

Start Close to Home. The question is: Who do you know? And the answer: More people than you think. And those people know countless others. So get the word out—seize every opportunity to publicize your job search. Shout it from the rooftops! Begin asking for assistance with the right attitude. You are in business to get a job.. Don't leave out your classmates, former classmates, school alumni, teachers, professors, coaches, and anyone who was ever on your team or in your class. Co-workers, former co-workers, bosses, friends' bosses count, too. Be specific: let them know the type of position you're looking for.

Be a good listener. Even if you're not great at small talk, it's easy to be a good listener. Everyone loves to talk about himself or herself, and other people's experiences are a great way to learn about a career or a company, as well as potential job openings. Just ask a few key questions: "What do you do?" "Where are you working?" "How'd you get started?" Then sit back and soak up the information. A random encounter at a coffee shop or on a subway may spark a new job or industry idea in your head.

Find a reason to call. Find articles or news programs that you might recommend to your key contacts. "I saw this article and thought of you…" shows you are up on your current events and that your professional life is top-of-mind. This tactic is sure to impress! If you can't come up with something quite as clever, invite your contact for afternoon tea or an evening cocktail at the newest spot in town. It's less expensive than a whole meal, and that drink could lead to great connections. Instead of asking for a job, start by offering your contact the opportunity to share their career advice and individual stories.

Use your alumni association. College alumni are an often-untapped resource, which is a shame since they can be some of your best connections for career networking. Aside from maintaining a vast network of contacts, many of whom are ready to help fellow graduates, career service offices also offer a range of services. These include résumé critiques, career assessment instruments, seminars, career days, employer information sessions, alumni networking clubs, and access to online job listings. Most schools around the country provide reciprocity for their alumni at other schools. If you attended a small college and you’ve found that none of the alumni connections are relevant, ask your alma mater to write a letter on your behalf seeking services at other career centers around the country. Such arrangements allow you to tap into that network and make use of their resources. Similarly, when approaching alumni for assistance with your search, be prepared to share the latest campus news and excitement. This often provokes a sense of nostalgia and triggers memories from their time on campus. That connection can strengthen their desire to assist your efforts. It is also an opportunity for them to learn what kind of career opportunities new graduates are currently pursuing.

Do Your Homework. Before getting in touch with your new contact or alumnus, research his or her company. Familiarize yourself with the organization’s structure, products and services, and competitors, as well as how this person’s job fits into the organization. Go beyond reading the website. Read trade journals and other industry magazines.

Prepare for an Informational Interview. You’ve convinced someone to give you their valuable time. Don’t squander it. Be prepared, professional, polite, and to the point. Create a list of questions to ask based on your individual goals and the knowledge you have gained through your research.

Related articles :The Top 10 Dos and Don'ts of Networking


Ultimate dating tips



Dress To Impress


Do think about your outfit. Even if he doesn't know his Prada from his Primark, what you wear will make an impression, if only a sub-conscious one. Don't try to be too sexy by wearing low-cut tops or short skirts; at this early stage, he's more likely to be turned on by what he can't see than what he can. Opt for something that's neat but not too smart.

No Place For Exes


Don't talk about exes. It seems so obvious but this is a trap many first daters find themselves falling into. If you spend the entire evening recalling the details of your past relationships or, worse, trying to find out the details of his, he's unlikely to call you again. Save this discussion until you know each other a little better.

Alcohol Alert


Don't get drunk. Everyone knows that first dates are nerve-wracking experiences but downing a bottle of wine before the starters have come is going to impair your judgment and make you say or do things you don't want to. Stick to a few glasses and drink lots of water.

Common Ground


Do find out what you have in common. Do you both like a particular film or have you both been on holiday to the same place? Keep topics general and, if you get on, you should find the conversation runs smoothly. Just be yourself and don't lie to impress him.

Positive Attitude


Do be positive - there are few things more attractive to a man. Don't dwell on your faults but tell him about the things you enjoy and have achieved. If you like something he's wearing or what he's said, don't be afraid to complement him. Your upbeat attitude is bound to win him over!

Listen Carefully


Do listen. It's easy when you're nervous to find yourself chattering on, but do make the effort to listen to what he has to say. If you don't, he might think that you're only interested in yourself.

Get Some Perspective
Don't be upset if he doesn't call you again. You have to put a first date in perspective – it's a chance to meet to see if something more could happen. If nothing does, don't think there's something wrong with you; some people just don't click. Get out there and find someone else.

 

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